What is it? What makes it work? What makes it not work?
Ah the re la tion ship…
I really don’t know what makes them work. Sometimes you have a big huge pile of shit and then it turns into something pretty good. Other times you have this shiny diamond of a relationship and it turns into a big pile of shit. Figure out the equation or riddle up a formula and I’m sure you will be sought after by the masses.
What is right? What is wrong? What is allowed in a relationship? What sorts of things are you willing to tolerate? What things are you unwilling to tolerate? Ah the deal-breakers…
Me I’m not a door mat but if your mine girlfriend I’ll let you wipe your feet on me. I’m no push over but if you want to push me around I’ll let you. Hell I’m not going to rewrite I’m your man (not that I could), but the reality is that there have to be limits. Those things that we are just not willing to recover from. Those things that just make you say “Well, OK, thanks for playing.” and “Nice try…”
It is really about how we feel, as people, on the inside. I definitely know “what my gut is telling me” and I’m smart enough these days to listen to it. If I fall asleep when my head hits the pillow its a safe bet that I’m doing the right thing. Even with the best intentions we sometimes make the wrong decisions. Armed with information we make decisions and those decisions have consequences.
Woops wrongs choice. Oh well try harder next time…no biggie…
We all do the our best with the information we have at the time. And that is all anyone can ask of anyone is to do our best with the information we have…We make mistakes but we learn from them and keep on trying. We never give up no matter how much we want to we struggle harder. We never fail…Failure only exists when we are not trying…
So I don’t know what is missing but I’ll keep trying…